I don't.
I have a "Things Fall Apart" perspective on why the gender movement colonized us so effectively. The LGB community was deeply dysfunctional and odds with itself before they ever took over.
They took advantage of:
Power disparities- the Ls were kicked out of leadership positions for objecting to transgender identity.
The weakness of marginalized members-Yes, my people, the Bs. We'll accept anyone who accepts us and we're desperate for a support system and somewhere we belong.
Simmering resentments- feminine gay men and masculine lesbians haven't been treated as much respect as they deserve in the past. They are, even today, still being used as a support base by trans-activists. You could throw a lot of the bisexual women activists in here as well, empathizing with another group apparently being mistreated in similar ways to how they were. I'm not going to accuse any of them of being shallow or narcissistic without a solid reason. I know better than to trust that impulse at this point.
Class and race- rich v. poor, socially advantaged v. socially disadvantaged, worldview v. worldview. You can shave group down indefinitely until there's no one left if you encourage them to talk over each other and focus on their differences. I think giving academics pride of place was a fatal mistake, emphasizing theory and gay studies topics as the basis of gay identity rather than the lived experiences of regular gay people.
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