However, women don't have to do anything, and their femininity will not be called into question (with the exception of butch women, of course). If men don't achieve, or put in work, or learn skills, they are looked down upon by society in general.

I'm trying to understand what kind of mindset does a man need to have to believe this disheartening bullshit. I have a hint: a complete lack of imagining what being female ACTUALLY is like. Something that seems to be in common with the trannies.

Yeah, not only women don't have to do anything: they're frowned at and even discouraged if they try to do anything. A woman's femininity is ALWAYS called into question, far more than a man's..... and fun fact, it tends to be called in question whenever a woman accomplishes something, just like you said. There's rumours that "JKR is secretly trans", and a rumour that "Kamala Harris is a man in disguise". It even harkens back to the queens of England. Because if a woman accomplishes something, she can't be a woman.

I have first hand experience on this myself - like all women, all of them. do. For example, I once cosplayed a drunken middleaged male character while a friend of mine dressed sexy. The photographer pushed me away. It left such an impression on me I cosplayed as a slut myself the next time, and I discovered that yes, showing boobs is more encouraged than putting effort in clothes and acting.

So you say, hey, ok, so women are discouraged from actually accomplishing things, doing good in jobs, or being quirky. But at least all they have to do is look pretty and then they get their way!

And that's another bullshit statement, from someone who sees a pair of boobs from the outside and doesn't think about anything else. You HAVE to look pretty. Women are held to a much harsher standard of beauty, because an ugly man who's successful or rich becomes hot, but an ugly woman who's successful or rich still is considered ugly. If you don't believe me, look at any media ever. From how female actresses that are old are a rare sight compared to old actors who become sex symbols. To simply how videogames even now in the hyper-woke era where things at least improved in that regard, we still have a huge tendency to portray the male character as anything (old, ugly, fat, animal) and the female character as generically pretty.

I won't even get into the social and biological horror of being a woman. If men can go as far as to fetishize menstruation or pregnancy, it means they just have zero idea about it. Well, not all men, but you sure do, judging by your comments.