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[–]xoenix[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

lol:

Why do we post shit like this?? There’s literally zero positives, only negatives. This sub loves themselves some self-inflicted pain. This post was the last straw, I’m leaving this sub for good.

[–]NastyWetSmear 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

New rule for Reddit: No posts that can be described as negative. I don't care if you have cancer, cheer the fuck up!

[–]xoenix[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I notice that both r/MtF and r/FtM are endless streams of misery, doubt and regret. Those posts on their own, without all the gaslighting, delusion-affirming commentary, contain some of the best arguments against transgenderism.

[–]NastyWetSmear 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know we like to joke around, but, yeah, they likely are miserable. The genuine ones with an actual mental illness are in a pretty damn rotten situation - they have a problem that doesn't have a good solution, and no solution can be found because to question the current, horrid, life ruining medical solution is a kind of modern blasphemy.

The ones who just jump on the band wagon for likes or because they get their rocks off pretending to be women? Meh. When you hurl yourself into a pit of misery, I don't care that you find it miserable. S'kinda what you signed up for.

[–]alladd 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it's hard for them to notice what's obvious from the outside because they've all been depressed pretty much their entire lives. Every community they've been a part of has been like that and they probably think that's just what life is like.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah no shit. One it's reddit. Two it's people who have nothing better to do with their lives than go on Reddit and talk about their identity problems vs video games or movies or literally any other banal interest that is more fun.

Gonna naturally devolve into the most miserable types getting off on each other's misery I think.

Like any "mentally healthy" trans person isn't going around screaming about validation 24/7, they're just living their life and not giving a fuck if other people accept them or not. Frankly I get along fine with most of these people even if we have very deep disagreements when it comes to trans issues in general since they can actually hold conversations about things other than that.

Back 20 years ago when everyone was coming out of the closet as well was similar. Actual gay people that were otherwise normal? No issues. We don't talk about preferred positions or whatnot, 99% of contexts it's totally irrelevant. But there was always some group of "total fags" that literally would just go around screaming at people "you must accept us" and like, nobody likes you, not even the actual faggots.

I remember there being some demonstration for "national day of silence" for gay people or something where they just taped their mouths shut and refused to participate in class for a day and like, whatever as far as protests go that's pretty easy to ignore but I can't help but think what insufferable twats they were and how ineffective the protest was. Cause I was thinking like, ok so gay people don't have a voice so instead of speaking out for them you're going to just be annoyingly silent about everything? So random people who don't know anything about it are going to have their first impression of the gay rights movement as a bunch of annoying theater kids refusing to participate in class discussions and group projects, well you're just going to piss off a bunch of people.

Hey we've got a speaking test scheduled for the same day as our actual protest can you reschedule. Um no. You can protest and I support your right to protest, but the test is on this day and if you don't have a valid medical excuse you'll get a zero. But hey, you've got to make the decision if gay rights are more important than your grades anyway or else your protest is meaningless without some sacrifice. So if I move the date it hurts your movement actually.

Turns out grades are more important than gay rights, who could have thunk it.

[–]AriShekelsteinDDS 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They think about themselves 24/7.

[–]OuroborosTheory 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

the surprise outcome is that it's Shardik

[–]SerpensInferna 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people are so self-absorbed, their heads are so far up their own asses, it is AMAZING.

Also, I would ONE HUNDRED PERCENT choose a bear over a TW, 'passing', blatantly non-passing, it doesn't fucking matter. Bear every single time.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I didn't know they used the term hug box that's interesting.