How can I date and find a boyfriend if I am a gay transgender man who doesn't pass... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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lol I had IRL friends at one point who pressured me to become polyamorous. We are no longer friends.

My selfish theyfab makes me feel like a lesbian instead of a gay man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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being homosexual is inherently predatory

And the past repeats

Creep being stupid by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Nobody needs an excuse not to fuck you, homie. And if they did, your face would be enough.

Gender non conforming LGBs, what's the most absurd reasons a TRA urged u to transition? by Shales123 in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think it was intended to be a burn, either. She was genuinely giving me an earnest suggestion.

Gender non conforming LGBs, what's the most absurd reasons a TRA urged u to transition? by Shales123 in LGBDropTheT

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I had someone tell me I should consider transition because I really like math.

I had someone else just look me up and down and say "Why don't you just go all the way?"

Trans mod of r/asklesbians getting pissy in the comments that people are downvoting but not responding to obvious bait question. by sneeuweekhoorn in LGBDropTheT

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Yep, this is the one. It only makes no sense until you realize they are not sincere in their claims to want true love and companionship. Their goal is to isolate lesbians, make them feel alone and wrong and shameful so that they can be coerced into making themselves sexually available for the fulfillment of these men's fetishes. Some of them simply don't care about consent, and for others the lack of consent is the point.

Of course there are plenty of trans people who don't think this way and genuinely want real companionship and etc, but they aren't the ones doing this kind of thing.

App Fetishizing Forcible Transitioning of Kids Available on Google Play by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Jesus FUCKING Christ

SaidIt Survey: Ban /u/JasonCarswell or keep it around? by ActuallyNot in AskSaidIt

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coomer.jpg

We don't get paid enough to put up with their homophobia by KimiORabu in LGBDropTheT

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She likes heteronormativity because she's a fucking heterosexual lmao. The absolute gal of this woman to claim being a "gay trans man" makes her opinion on this issue more informed or important than that of a lesbian. Christ.

Rape by deception: straight women edition. by Neo_Shadow_Lurker in LGBDropTheT

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I can only assume that you supported Trump

You really can't. Being annoyed by childish behavior is not a "Trump supporter" trait, it's a general adult trait. And snorting incredulously at someone being stupid in my replies once a day or so is really not the sign of incredible soul-scarring offense you want it to be lmao.

Rape by deception: straight women edition. by Neo_Shadow_Lurker in LGBDropTheT

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Replying to a criticism of your rhetoric with condescension and deflection isn't particularly high on the pyramid of the debate either, if we're really doing the "NO U" thing here.

Rape by deception: straight women edition. by Neo_Shadow_Lurker in LGBDropTheT

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But why? I fully get not liking the man but referring to him in bizarre ways to avoid saying his name is just childish.

Shoving more pornified ideologies down people's throats. Wonder who will be blamed? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Right? The fuck does that have to do with dating?

Shoving more pornified ideologies down people's throats. Wonder who will be blamed? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I'm having such trouble with the picture accompanying the "every single vaxxer" tagline. Are they sharing tongues? Is one of them pushing their entire tongue into the other's mouth such that I cannot tell whose tongue it is or from whence it came? Has the vax merged their tongues into one giant unitongue? Do they need help? What am I looking at here?

The eternal mystery of why r/TumblrInAction remains while r/LGBDropTheT, r/GenderCritical and so many more were banned. Thoughts? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Cuz it's populated mostly by straight men. 🤷

TRAs and many wokies in general feel entitled to the support of women and LGB people. "I'm fighting for your rights!" they'll say, while fighting against your rights, "how dare you not support me???" When straight men offend them they see it more as the natural order of things, rather than as a betrayal.

That, and they're cowards, so they won't go after groups they view as having more power than they do.

Rape by deception: straight women edition. by Neo_Shadow_Lurker in LGBDropTheT

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Remember that guy who was recently living in the White House?

He's not Voldemort. You can just say Trump.

Cow #2 Electric Boogaloo by BrokenDreams in TikTokCringe

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tfw the video was removed for violating terms of service so idk what I own

Totes hottie expresses frustration at cis gay himbos thirsting after losers like David Beckham by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's never a real disability, either. They're always fully-abled people collecting disability labels the same way they're straight people calling themselves "queer."

Lesbians aren't pornsick men by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Eh, it's something about the universal female experience of constantly being on guard for threats of sexual violence. I'd have a lot of empathy for a woman who feels uncomfortable undressing around someone who may be viewing her sexually. I can't say I've ever had it come up, though, especially because I (along with every other lesbian I know tbh) go out of my way to not be leering at women in locker rooms or what have you.

The only exemption allowed for “cis gays” by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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autogynamelia

Well at least he admits it.

Lesbians aren't pornsick men by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Honestly I could understand why a straight woman might feel uncomfortable changing around me and wouldn't begrudge her that at all. I'd be open to alternative options like a private stall or a separate changing area or something if there were an issue. I would never want to make a woman feel uncomfortable about potentially being sized-up sexually in a vulnerable situation like that.

The strange gender euphoria that comes with cis gay dudes being into you by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I mean, there are plenty of traits that aren't directly relevant to sexual function that play enormous parts in sexual attraction. I assume dick is sexually attractive to gay men regardless of whether it's being used to penetrate or what have you.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's not a dogwhistle homie, it's a bullhorn. Same-sex means same-sex and we're using it to clarify that our sexual orientation excludes you. There's no secret hidden message here.

[Particularly] Lesbians of s/GC: would (could) you date a girl with pro-trans views? Is trans support a red flag in LGB circles? by jjdub7 in GenderCritical

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would (could) you date a girl with pro-trans views?

No. I have no flexibility on this point at all. I see a single pro-trans talking point and I'm out. I'm not having that shit in my life.

Is trans support a red flag in LGB circles?

Yep. But it's hard to find real LGB circles these days.

Any strategies for finding the sane pockets of LGB when navigating dating here in the post-homosexual era?

Honestly? I have no idea how to find them locally. The only thing I've ever been successful at is finding like-minded people online and traveling to them.

The answer from everyone seeing this will be an emphatic "not on your life" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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wat

even by QT standards this is wat

So... where are you on the transphobia scale? by Neo_Shadow_Lurker in LGBDropTheT

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I'm hanging out right at overt transphobia lmao.

Tootsie says genital preferences are just straight up transphobia by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Bitch I love PUSSY.

/r/lgbt confirms that raping ones mother is a much lesser crime than being misgendered by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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He's in Virginia, which I believe houses MTFs in men's prison until they get SRS. He's fully intact, so he should be in a men's prison.

The sheriffs department released a statement about his arrest calling him "he" throughout, which I think is a good sign.

"'I’m not attracted to trans people' is based on the idea that you actually CAN exclude trans folks from your dating pool, and you absolutely positively can’t" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Yes, I can. And I don't have to justify why, either. Eat shit.

Should have stopped at "I don't know a single lesbian IRL" by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

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Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh no.

Gay men take a big 'L' this week. by chazzstrong in LGBDropTheT

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When you find out, let me know. I've heard good things about both DC and Miami.

Gay men take a big 'L' this week. by chazzstrong in LGBDropTheT

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San Francisco is almost basically the global earth headquarters for gays and lesbians.

Not for lesbians. San Francisco is very hostile to lesbians, actually, because it's so full of MTFs.

Gay men take a big 'L' this week. by chazzstrong in LGBDropTheT

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This is so much creepier than I thought it was gonna be. The expressions on the main guy's face are really unsettling to me and the lyrics are threatening in a way that doesn't seem entirely joking. Really poor decisions here.

It's soooooooo awkward by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Could just be bog-standard homophobia tbh. A pure "ew, a gay" response.

r/BlockedAndReported - I'm a lesbian and just found out yet another one of my exes is transitioning by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Relatable. As a butch lesbian, I do often feel like the only one left who hasn't eaten some sort of gender woo.

"White dykes do better" by Shales123 in LGBDropTheT

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No.

Why don't these delusional gay men just suck each other's dicks and leave lesbians out of it? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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somebody needs to tell this person that lesbos is the name of an island

Why don't these delusional gay men just suck each other's dicks and leave lesbians out of it? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It manages to be both homophobic and biphobic lmfao

The same Colorado baker who refused to bake the gay wedding cake is now being fined for refusing to bake a transition cake. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah I'm firmly on the baker's side on this one. This is not some kind of systemic issue where a gay couple can't easily find a cake baker and the dude isn't even refusing to serve anyone, just refusing a specific commission he finds offensive. Everyone needs to leave this guy alone.

Women hate women by Lowkey2017 in CringeAnarchy

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You can't have a successful feminist movement without at least a bare minimum of bad shitposting tbh

A dick-loving lesbian's dream by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is the most bizarre comment lmao. Is this a troll, an insecure virgin, or just a lesbian who doesn't like strap-ons and is incredibly stupid? You decide!

Why oh why is support for "queer" people plummeting? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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by being a pedophile

Rapists gonna justify rape and the T is embarrassing once again by Sunflowerdevyl in LGBDropTheT

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her

edit: whoa my god I double checked and this rapist is actually a woman. My bad. This absolutely read as an MTF incel manifesto.

During Pride month, be a good lgbtqia+ and only eat Gay food! by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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oh no nooooooooooo

During Pride month, be a good lgbtqia+ and only eat Gay food! by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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Just looking at this makes me want to order Chick-fil-A and I don't even like Chick-fil-A.

Us poor widdle men are scared of big mean lesbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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g o o d

The next time you see a gay trans man """reclaiming""" the word f*ggot, ask them why they aren't doing the same for the word tr*nny. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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Oh they absolutely do. It's fucking infuriating.

trans guy agrees with supergay and superstraight..... maybe there's hope for the T after all by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Is My boyfriend less then straight for being in a relationship with me rather then with a cis woman?

"less then straight." Well gee, that's a telling way of phrasing it, isn't it?

And yes, he is absolutely not straight if he's dating a trans woman lmao.

Widespread penis disgust by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Die mad about it.

This is an actual tweet from Joe Biden by Orangutan in politics

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If you kill a few american's that the patriotic thing to do!

This but unironically. Suck my nuts you actual bootlicker.

Terrorised by cis lesbian monsters by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Good. I hope you never stop feeling profoundly uncomfortable in places that are not for you.

Good cities in the US for middle aged lesbians? by ishutmyeyestosee in Lesbians

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You absolutely do not want to move to SF anyway. SF is a place for gay men and transgender people, it is extremely hostile to lesbians. Don't assume that "LGBT" friendly places will be lesbian-friendly, because they largely aren't.

LGB Alliance is granted charitable status. by Movellon in LGBDropTheT

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An obvious scam that caters to pedophiles and fetishizes children

literally what

Outrage After University Suspends 11 Students For "Party" But Keeps $36,500 Tuition by magnora7 in corruption

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based

Outrage After University Suspends 11 Students For "Party" But Keeps $36,500 Tuition by magnora7 in corruption

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did u copypaste an unhinged TERF rant in my inbox

"Attraction can be controlled" by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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I think it's stupid to even call something like that "dumb and superficial." If you're not attracted to someone you're not attracted to them. It's not like people are making some sort of conscious decision to be turned off by some particular physical feature. Your sexual attraction is not a moral judgment. It's weird to be shirty about what people are not attracted to.

"Attraction can be controlled" by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Honestly my opinion on it is it doesn't even matter if your reasons for having racial preferences are racist. Treat everyone with respect, but sexual attraction is both involuntary and intensely personal. Nobody is owed attraction, and who you're into and why is not up for public debate. And I say that as someone without any real racial preferences tbh. I'm just really bothered by this penchant by wokescolds to pick at people not being attracted to whoever as if its any of their business. Rapey af.

Aimee Challenor-- the transwoman who defended his pedophilic father's acts (for which his father received a 22-year prison sentence)-- was just *hired by Reddit*. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Good lord. I've never been gladder to be an American.

Aimee Challenor-- the transwoman who defended his pedophilic father's acts (for which his father received a 22-year prison sentence)-- was just *hired by Reddit*. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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she

edit: I find it very odd that Graham referred to this male person as she and didn't mention that he's male.

As a straight guy I can't tell you how much I've enjoyed lurking this sub. by ImSuperCerial in LGBDropTheT

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Based superstraight bro.

How do you feel about the word Queer? by QueenOfTheNorth in LGBDropTheT

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It is easily my most-loathed slur. I would much rather be called a dyke than queer.

I fucking hate trannies by supersexual in SuperStraight

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tfw i could not shield whombstever-this-was

Blaire White supports Superstraights, calls Superphobes “creepy” by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Eh, he openly admits it's a mental illness with no good treatment and that's why he's done this. He openly admits he's a biological male and will die a biological male and that any man who dates him isn't completely straight. He doesn't really believe in transgender ideology as it exists today.

Maybe relatively sane instead of sane is the way to describe it.

Blaire White supports Superstraights, calls Superphobes “creepy” by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Basically. He's a political commentator who's amassed a sizable following in recent years for countering the increasingly insane mainstream TRA talking points. He's spoken up a few times about how trans people need to stop sexually harassing lesbians and gay men, etc. He went after Yaniv super hard when that popped, and was the one who originally got him arrested for brandishing an illegal taser. TRAs hate him with the fire of a thousand suns, of course.

Blaire White supports Superstraights, calls Superphobes “creepy” by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Famous for being an as-close-to-passing-as-it-gets, vocal MTF who isn't crazy tbh.

Lesbians scissoring is transmisogynistic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Excessive shame can be counterproductive, but shame serves an important function. It's an important regulator of behavior. People who post endlessly about their diaper fetishes in Twitter should feel more shame. People who jerk off in front of unwilling participants should feel shame. Pedophiles should feel shame. Trying to eliminate shame wholesale from society is just as counterproductive as overdoing it.

It's okay to say that bad things are bad.

Lesbians scissoring is transmisogynistic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Oh my god, who the hell cares about "shaming." Shame is a healthy and productive element of a functioning society. This culture of "you can never say anything is bad because it might hurt someone's feelings" needs to stop.

“r/TumblrInAction - Fat is not a choice and you can not be gay if u date skinny people“ by sadbihours in LGBDropTheT

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It's okay to not want to date someone for any reason at all. Who you want to fuck isn't up for public debate.

PSA: There is a Chrome extension called "Shinigami Eyes" that the TQ+ crowd uses to track and trace people they deem have transphobic views out there. It's about as sad and pathetic as it sounds. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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because they refused to have a threesome with him.

Oh my god is that really why? I've heard of this case but hadn't heard anything about the motive.

What can I say to all those gay transphobes who can see I'm actually a straight woman? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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She posts nudes and she literally still has visible tits hanging out. What's even happening here?

New LGB org. called LGB FIGHT BACK by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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money on caring for people who literally do not have a home or access to food

for those of us homosexuals who suffer deeply with mental health issues

These sound like issues for other social movements, like subsidized mental health care, food and housing, and not LGB ones.

Or what about gay male survivors of rampant gay sexual abuse, pedophilia, and prostitution?

a lot of therapists are shitty, especially if they find out it's a "gay thing" and they start parroting their pro-LGBT "everything is fine, love is love, be fabulous" unhelpful nonsense. Or they might take the "sex positive" side and insist that the abuse some of us have suffered isn't really abuse, but "empowering."

Ok this sounds like a really good cause for us to take up, for sure. What would you like to see an LGB organization do about this?

As usual, those of us who are misfortunate or even just from a different country get trampled over.

Are you angry that a political organization in another country funded by people in that country is focusing on issues specific to that country instead of on yours? That does not seem reasonable to me.

New LGB org. called LGB FIGHT BACK by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Many people are not aware of the harm of the affirmation model or the extremely dubious "science" behind transitioning kids. And if you really think transitioning of gay kids isn't a thing then I've got a bridge to sell you.

Where do you think money and resources should go, then? Raising public support for the LGB cause is fundamental.

New LGB org. called LGB FIGHT BACK by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Transitioning of kids, the "affirmation model," and transition being used as gay conversion therapy.

Nothing makes me cringe and want to scream at the top of my lungs more than glorifying the word “queer” by nbailey73 in LGBDropTheT

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I will very aggressively tell both straight and gay people to never call me queer under any circumstances. I've never gotten anything but confused acquiescence.

r/actualtransbians applauds woman for being misogynistic; bonus: "anyone anti-trans must be a rich, white, conservative woman" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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My favorite is the bit about us all having cleaners apparently? You can only know the difference between men and women if you're rich? What?

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Worrying about authoritarians having control of the country is petty or childish? I'd love to hear the reasoning for that one.

Actually nvm, no I wouldn't. Asking for an explanation like you give a shit when you're just looking for an excuse to namecall is not the kind of dipshittery you see from someone with opinions worth hearing.

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Aside from things like obliterating women's sports, I think people really underestimate how terrifying the democrats have gotten. This Orwellian censorship drive, the lying-to-us-for-our-own-good that many democrat leaders have engaged in. The idea that "dangerous ideas" or "dangerous speech" need to be censored and that anyone who says otherwise needs to be ruined. The wholly unscientific exhortations to "have faith in the science" (if you have to have faith in it, it's not science). The democratic party has swung incredibly authoritarian incredibly fast and it's going absolutely nowhere good.

Trump is a blustery narcissist, but he's fundamentally harmless. And before anyone says anything about the capitol riot, that wasn't really about Trump. That is a large swath of the country that has grown so fed up with our oligarchical ruling political class that they're reaching the point where they want to burn it all down. These people elected Trump precisely because he's not a typical politician. Trump isn't the problem. Trump is a warning. It's not being listened to, and that isn't going to lead anywhere good either.

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Yeah, I don't like Trump but I found him to be the best of two bad options. I also find it incredibly bizarre to watch feminists (here and on Ovarit) scold people of even thinking about voting for Trump and daring to consider themselves feminist and then gasping in overwrought shock as if they'd been betrayed when Biden did exactly what he promised to do on his first day in office. Like, this was literally in his platform. You either knew what you were voting for and didn't care because you bought some bullshit line about Trump being literally Hitler, or you didn't know, because you just did what you were told without bothering to actually look into the candidate you were casting your vote for. Either way, if you find this EO unexpected you're a fucking idiot.

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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lmao am I the only one around here who voted for oranj man?

T*RFs are just jealous because my silicon milkshakes bring all the lesbians to the yard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Was genuinely shocked to see that comment there.

Holy cow, the TRA are getting utterly destroyed in the comments section by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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uhm, sweaty, it's because I'm gay in addition to being mentally handicapped

So a friend came out as bi, I guess? (Bi people help) by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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Honestly I thought it was cute and well-done. It was a bit of a "what?" that people in the 80s didn't have a problem with it, but if you can accept that inaccuracy it didn't feel shoehorned at all imo and it flowed really well with the rest of the story.

Saidits First Documented Drama - 大下雪 by Tiwaking in SaidIt

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time to release the kraken

Detrans / desist / resist - Anyone here ever identify as trans, or seriously consider doing so? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I identified as nonbinary for like five seconds before peaking.

Woman banned for being a lesbian on dating app Hinge by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

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the obvious solution is stealth.

Fuck that. I didn't come out of one closet to go into another one.

"Cis lesbians and cis bi's [sic] are the most toxic part of the community" by diapason in LGBDropTheT

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"I hate women, especially ones who won't fuck me."

So, they often feel as predators but don't do nothing about it by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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Yo, sorry for this person.

So, they often feel as predators but don't do nothing about it by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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Whoa, "bisluts?" What the fuck, m8. We should not be slurring other members of the LGB here.

Anyone else notice how they're trying to change the meaning of GNC? by Lesbianese in LGBDropTheT

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It pisses me off every single time, because I am very GNC, but that does not make me any less of a woman.

I shall make a profile on [popular dating app]. Sexual orientation... OK there are 2 sexes... wait, is the color gray a sex? by Q-Continuum-kin in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah same. Nothing wrong with the orientation and they're describing it accurately which is refreshing.

Bi-furious rant by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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get told all the time we "have no excuses" because we like both

You don't need an excuse. No is a complete sentence. Nobody is obligated to sexual attraction, ever, and it's horseshit in 100% of cases to expect someone to "explain themselves" for not wanting to fuck you. It's like TRAs decided to look at incels and went "yeah, let's do that but turn the dial up a little."

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

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Yes I also knew how Trump was before he became president. He was a celebrity, only the very, very young would have missed out on that.

Have you ever met any actual far right people? Nothing Trump has done or said is far right, and his policies actively anger them. He's clearly not pandering to the far right, and it makes no sense to say his supporters are the far right, because they're supporting a politician and policies which are not far right. Again, the real far right really doesn't like him. Richard Spencer is supporting Biden this year, for example.

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

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How are his supporters far right if he is not far right? It stands to reason that a large majority of avid fans of a particular politician would share that politican's core political beliefs, no?

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

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🤔 but you said "the Far Right Trump Groupies." Trump isn't far right, so it stands to reason that his supporters are also not far right. As far as I'm aware, the far right really doesn't like Trump, either, as they feel he's too comfortable with jewish people and isn't authoritarian or militaristic enough.

#RIPJKROWLING is trending on twitter. by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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lol now I'ma try out this book series

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

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...and none of that makes him far right? What are you talking about.

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

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Nah, I don't mean I think he'd be a worse president, I mean I think he's a worse candidate in that he has less of a chance of winning. The combination of his very obvious confusion in the middle of sentences, the way he's responded to the riots, Kamala as a VP, and the variety of racist things he's said make him even less appealing than Hillary. And Hillary, frankly, wasn't all that appealing to begin with even without all the sexist shit she got. She was really uncharismatic, but she was at least able to project an air of competence that Biden is completely lacking, imo. And Kamala is an awful-enough VP pick to drag the whole ticket straight down into the ground.

But who knows what will happen. It's 2020, all bets are off. That's just how I see the landscape at this point.

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

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I would consider Biden to be a worse candidate than Hillary tbh.