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[–]FormosaOolong 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It depends how you define free speech. If your idea of free speech is maligning, harassing, debasing, and insulting people, rather than argue your point, then you are correct, Saidit doesn't value that.

If however, you define free speech as the right to hold and put forth your opinions--no matter what they might be--and you use an internally-modulated scale by which you express those opinions without resorting to means that in the end defeat the purpose of trying to express yourself, then you have found one of the best places to engage in high-quality uncensored discussion.

Why so many people conflate being a jerk with free speech is a conundrum. Free speech isn't say-whatever-you-want-whenever-you-want-wherever-you-want. It is the right to have and hold opinions, points of view, etc, and not be persecuted for them. Then to use your discernment in how you use this inalienable right for the highest benefit and purpose.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think freedom of affect is an important part of freedom of speech. I've been exposed to a huge amount of affect-propaganda just through movies, ads, political messages, religion, etc, and I think it's been important for me to be able to see stuff with different affect. You yourself even seem to recognize its value.

I think there's an implication in here that only bad people who want to hurt others are interested in a freer speech environment than what SaidIt is offering. (Which is, to some, a maligning and insulting implication.) I haven't been here long, but if you look at my brief post history I think you'll see that I've probably valued treating others well more than the average user here, including the poster above who gave an extra-strong written-upvote to someone who was objectively choosing to be rude.

[–]FormosaOolong 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh hey, sorry, I meant "you" in the sense of "one." I didn't at all mean you were being rude or a jerk. Now that I reread my post and your reply, I can see how that wasn't as obvious as I thought. Apologies for any misunderstandings.

I hear what you're saying about affect, and agree that it is important. Which is why I prefer to communicate with genuine--not contrived--respect for others even when I totally disagree with them. Passion and wrathfulness have their place, but when the foundation for communication degrades into name-calling and such, in my opinion the value has been lost.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh hey, sorry, I meant "you" in the sense of "one."

Hey, thanks, it's nice to know you didn't mean the reply as a kind of attack against me personally. And I didn't think you did, it seemed like the kind of reply someone gives when they come by and feel like commenting on the general ideas without thinking too deeply about what's written there. Not to knock that or whatever, I've done it a lot myself. I know what it's like to value having goodwill and wanting to know you weren't offending someone across the internet, and I appreciate people wanting to treat me well, so I wanted to try to reply in the same vein.

I didn't think you meant "you" in the personal sense though, it was the content of the message I wanted to respond to. Whether or not directed at any one person, the thrust of the argument seemed to be that freer speech is only desirable for bad people ("jerks"). I don't think that's true, and it's not just that I don't like the implication about me, it's a message I think is part of the current ecosystem and I don't like the implication about all people who want freer speech than what's offered here. I also wanted to point out that someone who was arguing against saying negative things about others was someone who was participating in that themselves; it's a pattern I see somewhat often and I think it's worth pointing out for people who haven't noticed it yet.

Anyway, thank you for the conversation, I don't know if you'll want to reply again but I feel I've probably made my case now, whether or not anyone agrees with it.

[–]Tiwaking 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Does content get removed if it's down-pyramid?

No as content is evidence of bad behaviour. Unless it is doxing, child porn, NAMBLA, pornography, or calls to attack people (though even that needs to be held as evidence).

How many warnings do people get?

Three. Unless it is doxing, child porn, NAMBLA, etc.

It seems there is some inconsistency in what SaidIt is trying to be.

Oh? Saidit is a place where you can say stuff and not get censored unless it is NAMBLA, violence, or porn related.

I don't think it's possible to both provide a full alternative to reddit, and be a site that seriously maintains a high level of discussion as defined by the pyramid

After reading peoples experiences with the current reddit.......reddit doesnt seem to be reddit any more. So, I agree: this place cannot provide a full alternative to reddit, and that is because Reddit has no principles.

The principles which formed reddit have been repeatedly violated and stomped on to leave an unrecognizable mess that people think is reddit, but in reality is a cold dead corpse of a once good idea.

This place appears to want to have interesting and open debates while preventing arguments devolving into "ur mum, no u" without preventing random shitposting.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Saidit is a place where you can say stuff and not get censored unless it is NAMBLA, violence, or porn related.

I don't think that's accurate: this is an example I linked in my OP. I've never visited the sub, but I don't think "lowering the pyramid level" and "making us more like voat" are NAMBLA, violence, or pornography.

If expectations were set accurately, I would not have been surprised to find a sub like that had been removed with that kind of justification -- it would have just been the kind of thing I had expected to see here because the project was described accurately to me.

[–]Tiwaking 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't think that's accurate

I agree with you.

What I've stated is what is intended by the pyramid. I dont know how or if it is enforced. I know it is not enforced evenly across the site though, as different subs handle situations differently. Also, different situations (and users) require different approaches. If you sow the wind, then prepare to reap the whirlwind!

Then again, some people cant even follow the rules which are given on the rules page.

I guess what Im trying to say is: If you see a situation which seems unfair, then complain. If you see a situation which IS unfair: Fight.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I guess what Im trying to say is: If you see a situation which seems unfair, then complain. If you see a situation which IS unfair: Fight.

Well, I was trying to do something more constructive with this post than just complaining: I specifically meant to ask people to promote SaidIt in a way that gives more accurate expectations.

I do think there's unfairness here, but making SaidIt into what I think it says it is, or the kind of community I'd like... well, that seems a bit much for a random user. And I don't think I'm going to get the mods admins to care if they already don't -- maybe they will, that would be great, but I'm reminded of a video I saw a while ago.

(CW following) The youtuber in this video talked about experiencing abuse at the hands of a family member, and telling another family member about the abuse, only to have that person defend the person who'd done the abuse. The youtuber talked about how they came to believe that people only do that kind of abuse if it seemed safe for them in the first place. People know about wrong things, and about getting away with wrong things. They wouldn't have done it if they thought they wouldn't get away with it, or if they really thought it was wrong, in the first place.

After a certain point the SaidIt admins either address it or they don't; I think there are probably better ways to get the kind of community I want than continuing to interact if I don't like their decision. Hopefully I've made my point and if this is indeed an issue for others, my post will remain here as a help to anyone dealing with a similar issue.

[–]Tiwaking 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I think there are probably better ways to get the kind of community I want than continuing to interact if I don't like their decision. Hopefully I've made my point and if this is indeed an issue for others, my post will remain here as a help to anyone dealing with a similar issue.

Ahh I see. In that case having your own sub is the way to go. Im sure they'll be people in the future who have a similar issue.

Well, I was trying to do something more constructive with this post than just complaining: I specifically meant to ask people to promote SaidIt in a way that gives more accurate expectations.

Hmmm......

Saidit

The Retirement Home of Reddit

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

your own sub

I think having my own website and my own website hosting and my own country and ... well, this could get to be a long chain. I'll probably have to pick the most suitable group willing to host me as I go for a while since I don't have my own personal country at the moment.

retirement home

SaidIt doesn't feel like a reflective retirement home to me; the community though small feels pretty vital, active, and interesting. People who come to "fringe" things like this are often a bit on the cutting edge creative types who are excited about building new possibilities.

[–]zyxzevn 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I am a moderator on some science related subs. Generally I do only moderate personal attacks and notify people about moderations. And warn people if they do something edgy (like editing the meaning of the post afterwards or replying too much).

I find that personal attacks or implicit insults bring down the discussion very much. By moderation, I encourage the people to give the information that is worthwhile instead of garbage. I prefer commenting to their post/discussion as a mod, but remove personal attacks immediately. In that sense the pyramid works well against flame wars.

On reddit it is much worse, and I get lots of trolls that just try to find ways to insult people. The subs are very small, so it brings down any discussion, and it stops people from posting anything. I first banned them, but lately I remove their comments and replace them with just the informational content (and list some of the logical fallacies). This latter seems to work the best, but requires some effort.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I agree that moderation can improve discussion quality, and it's interesting to hear about what you've tried in the subs you moderate. Like I tried to explain, /r/changemyview, which has strict moderation, has allowed me to explore a variety of controversial topics and learn new things. But I think calling it "free speech" would lead people to be surprised at the breadth of content that isn't allowed.

[–]zyxzevn 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

The same data can be presented in different ways and structures. Structure is also information. Some presentations can be very enlightening, and informative. Other presentations can downgrade the data or bend it towards some narrative. :-)

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Yes, and I think that's a nice way to put it, but I'm not sure where we disagree. Do you think promoting SaidIt as a "free speech" platform will lead most people to have accurate expectations?

[–]zyxzevn 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't believe any social media platform is really free speech, because often some groups of people start dominating the discussions.

Also the internet sites need to follow certain nation laws, like copyright. These laws can be very restrictive in certain countries. Maybe the US will forbid to criticize the Israeli and Saudi military actions. Or the EU will forbid links to news sites.

I don't think we can have certain discussions on voat, because most there prefer to push certain ideas. On Minds I am called pseudo-scientist when I link to valid scientific research outside the narrative. I think that we are still learning how we can have a friendly and good discussion with freedom in ideas.

I looked at something like MIT's deliberation, but noticed that the moderator fully determines the discussion. This got me thinking about the need for different structures for different viewpoints, and how structures encapsulate information. A bit like a programmer thinks about abstractions.

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Interesting. Yes, I guess these are still issues we're figuring out as a society/species/whatever. I'd never heard of MIT's deliberatorium and I think it's neat that people are trying things like this. "Collaborative software" gee I guess it's a big world of things people have tried if I want to get into it.

It's also interesting to me to hear about these kinds of problems in the scientific world, because it's not an environment I've been part of very much.

The approach I am drawn to right now is private spaces for each individual where they can design things to their own preference, whatever it is, and choose to interact with who they want when they want how they want. Like tumblr, twitter, gab, etc. I've been meaning to check out the fediverse. I just haven't yet found a platform like that that I like yet, and I do find reddit's style easier to use than gab-like style. I'll find or build something probably, SaidIt was just what I explored this time.

And I think we have different ideas about what "free speech" means. To me, free speech means I and others get to say what we want how we want, but it doesn't require anyone to listen or talk to us when we do. I would consider a platform to be "free speech" as long as it doesn't remove the content, even if that content is very unpopular, or even if one group dominates most conversation. For example, while I don't like it's interface, I would consider Gab to be acting as a free speech platform right now (though people are suspicious about it for various reasons, and there might be things going on behind the scenes that I don't know about). Does a particular flavor of alt-right tend to dominate there? Sure. Other stuff seems to have a fine time existing there though -- I've encountered a pro-Trump black conservative group of users that generally oppose the anti-black and sometimes pro-white content, various narrative-challenging flavors of conservative, muslim supremacists, and people that just don't seem so interested in partisan politics. Does everyone listen to them and engage in a constructive way? No. Can they have a place to say what they want to say? Yes, it seems so.

The issue with governments censoring content is an important one, though, and one that is harder to address than just changing platform.

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I just removed one instance of "free speech" from our FAQ wiki page. I don't see it anywhere else in our official language/posts. Unfortunately some (volunteer and unprompted) promoters of SaidIt have used this term a little too liberally in the past.

[–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That must have been me. I came here not knowing much about the alt-right, asstrollery, nor many people's ideas of what "free speech" means to them.

Were I to do it all over again, I'd have used something different, such as "uncensored discourse" since discourse implies civil conversation, and if it's civil there's no reason to censor, regardless of the content.

I regret ever using it and am deeply sorry. Words matter.

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Thanks man, but really no big deal. Your PR by far outweighed this bit. And some schools of thought consider us more free speech for being pyramidy too.

[–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No one can be omnipotent and know all the ways words are used. I was just thrilled to find a truther tolerant place for freedom of ideas.

As for my PR stuff, I did what I could. Was it all perfect? Hell no. But after M7's meltdown and crapping on me for it, I have no drive to bother further.

For what it's worth, I still love the pyramid. It would be nice to discipline according to it more, and or have supplemental concrete rules, examples, and actions related to it. WAY easier said than done.

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More evidence that it's not just me who does not feel expectations are being set accurately as-is currently.

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    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Weren't you just complaining about people dragging down the pyramid level of discourse and being unfriendly to you, as you're doing here to me?

    [–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Very well written. A+++

    IMO, weak leadership could be greatly improved with a more open and democratic process. But they have to open that door to see guidance themselves and ask for advice and ideas. That doesn't mean handing the keys of the asylum over to the inmates. It simply means fostering channels they can draw from to pick and choose improvements while also strengthening community via collective contributions and participation.

    It would also have been nice to have people vote on new subs, rather than just let them happen. Without a monstrous database overhaul or some profound code I see no hope for control of them.

    If you want to read a sour turn in the history of SaidIt with a meltdown of arbitrary power, see the sad single episode in /s/HolocaustSkepticism to add to your in depth analysis.